FOR COUPLES WHO’D RATHER NOT GUESS

You both want it. Neither of you wants to ask.

nightcap asks you both, privately. If you both say yes, you both find out. If one of you says not tonight, the app never says who.

Download on the App Store
A month free then $4.99 a month — one plan, both phones
  • Your cycle log is never shown to him
  • Cancel in two taps, in iPhone Settings
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SOUND FAMILIAR?

The eyebrow raise. The 11pm “you tired?” The silence after.

Most couples aren’t out of sync on desire. They’re out of sync on asking. Nobody wants to be the one who brings it up and hears no — so nobody does, and weeks become months.

nightcap takes the asking off both of you.

HOW IT WORKS

Three taps. Zero awkward conversations.

1

Each of you answers, alone.

One quiet question on each phone: feeling it tonight? Nobody sees your answer yet — not even your partner.

2

Two yeses become a match.

Both phones light up at the same moment. Draw a card from the deck, or just put the phones down.

3

Anything else stays sealed.

If it’s not tonight, both phones say the same gentle “maybe tomorrow.” Nobody is told who said no.

WHAT’S INSIDE

Playful enough to open. Careful enough to trust.

A seven-day weather forecast of suns, clouds and moons

A forecast for her cycle

A seven-day weather report. On tender weeks, invites quietly stop — he gets kind suggestions instead of mixed signals.

A fanned hand of four playing cards with moon emblems

A deck of cards

Four suits, from tender to daring. Either of you can veto a card without giving a reason.

A butter-yellow streak medal with the number nine

Streaks you build together

Weekly streaks, badges and a shared scrapbook. A little game that makes it a habit.

A flame frozen inside an ice cube

Freeze, never fail

Exhausted, sick, travelling? The streak pauses. No penalty, no guilt, no pressure.

BUILT ON CONSENT, NOT ADDED LATER

The first thing you write is what you’ll never do.

Before you pair, you each list what’s permanently off the table. Those cards never appear. Everything after that is built so saying no is as easy as saying yes.

  • Change your mind Take back a yes, any time. No alert.
  • Quiet hours Rough night? Mute it for 48 hours.
  • Private cycle log He sees the forecast, never your log.
  • Unpair erases it Shared history is destroyed for both of you.
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ONE PLAN. TWO PHONES.

Less than one coffee for two.

One subscription covers both of you. Whoever subscribes, the other just pairs — no second bill, no feature split.

nightcap for couples A month free

$4.99 / month, per couple

  • The nightly signal, with a no that stays anonymous
  • The cycle weather report on both phones
  • The whole deck, and the never-do list
  • Streaks, badges and streak freezes
  • Quiet hours and apart mode
  • Both partners, on one plan
Get it on iPhone

The first month is free. After that Apple bills $4.99 a month inside the app, and you cancel it in your iPhone’s subscription settings — we never take a card on this site. Refunds & cancellation.

Fair questions

Will my partner know if I said no?

Never. If you don’t both say yes, both phones show the same message. And once the night has settled, we delete the record of who answered what — so there is nothing left to leak, not on your phone and not on our servers.

Who can see my cycle log?

Only you. Your partner sees a gentle forecast — “tender week,” “good energy” — and never the entries behind it, or even how many there are. You can turn that forecast off at any time.

Do we each need to pay?

No. One $4.99 subscription covers the couple. Whoever subscribes, the other partner just pairs. If you unpair, the subscription stays with whoever bought it.

Does it charge me every month automatically?

After the free month, yes — Apple renews it monthly until you cancel, and you cancel it in your iPhone’s own subscription settings in two taps. There is no card form on this website and nothing to cancel here.

What if we break up?

Either of you can unpair. Shared history — matches, cards, dates, streaks and your ground rules — is permanently erased for both of you. Your own cycle log stays yours.

Is it explicit?

No. nightcap is about timing and asking, not content. The deck is suggestive at most, and anything on your never list is filtered out for good.

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Tonight could be the first night nobody has to ask.

Download on the App Store

$4.99 a month per couple. Both phones, one plan.

A month free then $4.99 a month, both phones
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